
Grace Devotionals
Recent Devotionals
A rich moment to connect with God in His Word. Inspiration with practical steps for Christian growth and a stronger relationship with God.
Marriage Devotionals
You must have tried several interventions when it comes to the marriage, but this morning go before God with an open mind, and pour out your heart Him. Let God know your
Apostle Paul reminds us, "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others." (Phil. 2:3-4)The ideal, and Biblical marriage (as stated by Paul to the Philippians), comes when each spouse is constantly and genuinely concerned about the other in service and sacrifice.
As a diehard church girl, the thought of not going to church or leaving church early was inconceivable. But to stay home to watch English premier league, was tantamount to blasphemy. Oh my blood was boiling!
None of my miscarriages won me any sympathies from my husband. It was one misunderstanding after another. I basically didn’t have a voice on any issue. At times I came across as repulsive to him.
Without Christ, we cannot be married or stay happily married. Certainly, there are many non-Christians who are happily married just by applying God's principles. Those marriage appear great on the surface but are lacking in terms of spiritual and eternal wholeness.
A man's love for his wife is supposed to be a sample of Christ's love for His church. Christ love is rich and gentle and that will be the tone in your marriage.
If you are seeking marriage, doors of opportunities have opened for you to meet your future suitable partner. For those in marriages, God's will is for you to experience a rich and fulfilling marriage!
Parenting Devotionals
Performance-based love communicates to the child their value is based on what they do and not who they are.
I was raised by an ultra-strict father, who loved us so dearly but wouldn't repeat an instruction without consequences. I guess the little boy’s response triggered something from my childhood, perhaps my pride, or the sheer audacity to misbehave and then refuse punishment.
As a parent, I know we mean well with these traditional responses, however beneath the veneer of constant challenges, we communicate to the child their feelings and emotions are illegitimate
Children who are yelled at are controlled by an external locus or force. Once that force is removed, ie. They go to school or church they are set free to misbehave which calls for more yelling, followed by more misconduct; and a vicious cycle is set in place.
Charles Stanley, the famous American Bible teacher took the bedtime routine a step further. His son Andy, recalls his father kneeling on the floor in his room praying for him and his siblings. After prayer, Charles Stanley will rest his hand on young Andy and with a deep, soft southern accent, say "Andy you are going to be a great person in future!"
What are you doing today to intentionally and intelligently nurture connection with your child? Saying, "I love you," and "I care about you" isn't enough... We have to show it!
Friendship is the heartbeat of every true relationship. Friendship is the seed of the relationship. It is that entity that must be watered and nurtured for the relationship to bear good fruits. The moment the friendship is depleted the relationship looses its zest and charm.